We’re Earl & Nicole
After getting married reasonably young, like most couples, we stood before God, our family, and our friends with tremendous confidence and hope for a successful marriage. We went into marriage believing we had it somewhat figured out, but after a few rough years, we quickly noticed we were wrong. Our marriage struggled and was no longer working.
We were miserable, and daily we contemplated throwing in the towel. Our marriage suffered tremendously during the first couple of years due to infidelity, communication issues, financial hardships, offense, anger, and so much more. We couldn't have been more embarrassed or ashamed to seek help and godly counsel for many of the problems that kept us divided. It only left us with thoughts of divorce and ending our marriage. We had tried so hard to figure out how to restore our marriage quietly. Still, we quickly realized we had only made matters worse, and getting a divorce would most likely be our best option. But, as difficult as it was, we decided not to give up hope.
Through God's teaching, intense counseling, mentoring, unceasing prayer, and faithful accountability partners who desperately wanted to see us win, we committed to God, one another, and to improving our marriage. We believe there wasn't much we didn't deal with in our marriage. Still, we set out to do the work. We began to conquer some significant obstacles that many marriages struggle to navigate daily, and our marriage changed. We let God have complete authority over our hearts and marriage, and we started to see our purpose for being together as fulfilling, rewarding, and one that brought God glory. We’re encouraged and undoubtedly believe the same can happen for you.
If you're struggling in your marriage, we want you to know there's hope. Pray, seek God, and don't be intimidated to ask for help. Nicole and I want to see God revive the love, restore your and your spouse's passion for one another, and for you to experience the marriage God has planned for you when you submit your marriage to the Lordship of Jesus Christ.
Why We Coach
We coach because we know what it’s like to feel disconnected, discouraged, and unsure if your marriage can survive, let alone thrive. Although we’re not professional counselors or licensed therapists, we believe every couple can move from thoughts of divorce and separation to a marriage where connection and hope are renewed.
We’ve lived the struggle. We’ve had to rebuild trust, learn to communicate effectively, and rediscover who we are as individuals and as a couple. And through it all, we found this unshakable truth: God’s grace is more than enough to heal what’s broken and strengthen what remains. This realization is at the heart of our purpose.
We coach to help couples realize they’re not alone. Healing is possible. Real change takes intentional effort, Christ-centered guidance, and plenty of grace.
Our passion is to walk with couples through the messy middle—not as perfect people, but as people who’ve been refined by the process. We don’t just teach principles; we share from our lived experience and walk alongside you as you build a marriage that reflects God’s heart.
A Personal Note from Earl & Nicole
If you're reading this, you're probably in a place we know well - wondering if there's hope for your marriage, if change is really possible, if love can be restored. We want you to know that we see you, we understand your pain, and we believe in your marriage's potential even when you can't see it yourself.
The journey isn't easy, but you don't have to walk it alone. We're here to guide you with the same God-given grace that guided us, to share the tools that transformed our relationship, and to remind you of the truth we desperately needed to hear in our darkest moments. Your marriage can not only be saved, but it can be better than you ever imagined.
We're cheering you on and praying for a breakthrough in your marriage. The best is still ahead."
- Earl & Nicole